I turned norton off and it was a mistake.. lol

Your web host is pushing something called dashboard? I dunno.. looked like spyware junk, really. There also seems to be a number of other java scripts running on the page. I suggest creating a single, blank page with nothing but the chat room code on it and see if that works. Also, you may wish to use the one that loads in the same page or perhaps the “chat now” text link. I think IE is choking on the other java scripts and ads on the page.