To get full control of your room please read this post:

How do I get full control of my room?

In short, you would need to type these commands while your in your room and have the @ symbol next to your nickname:

/nickserv register YourPassword YourEmail

/chanserv register #YourRoomName YourPassword RoomDescription

Then from there on, after entering the room you would type:

/nickserv identify YourPassword

/chanserv op

Are you using Norton Antivirus or other simular software that prevents popup windows from opening? If so add the chattersonline.com domain name to your list of trusted sites so that these will work.

Only difference is one provides a login box and the other provides a login link to the room.